Moms, were some of you not really domesticated when you got married (couldn't clean/cook/do laundry/etc)? How did you adjust?

Two things, either u tell urself to try like wash clothes or u get a house help spend at least 6k per month and mag buhay millionaire ka..nice if you have extra cash.. If none.. Well.. Things u need to ponder.. scary din is if the helper treats ur partner better than you.. Kasi can cook, can wash clothes, can take care of ur baby and ur hubby..