Moms, were some of you not really domesticated when you got married (couldn't clean/cook/do laundry/etc)? How did you adjust?

alam ko gawaing bahay pero tamad ako before kaya Hindi ako gumagawa sa bahay. . pero nung nag ka baby na.. may urge na mga linis, nkaka paranoid na baka mag kasakit etc. feeling ko lalabas n lng tlga Yung ganung instinct natin.. Kung Hindi lumabas ayos lng Yan.. Basta maunawain asawa mo. samin si hubby Ang taga luto mas masarap sya mag luto.