Cheating Husband who makes less money than me

Just found out my husband of 8 years has been cheating on me. I'm devastated but more concerned for the kids - they are 3 and 5, and from every study I have read, divorce is one of the worst things that can happen to a child. I can't bear to do this to them but at the same time, I'm not sure I can ever forgive my husband. I am not financially dependent on him (I actually make more money than him). He is still a great father...I really don't know what to do. Please help.

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I'm so sorry. I wish things will get better for you. I guess you will have to weigh and see if you would be able to fight for the marriage. is it worth fighting for? What about the good things he has done? these are all factors to weigh in my opinion.