Upset with husband. Need to vent out my frastration here

Hi, I'm like 38weeks pregnant now but husband don't seems to be supportive enough, everything also push the blame on me.like as if I'm the one have to bare every responsibility. I just need him to give me more attention but ended up all his attitude. I was really hoping he will change when we had a child. I was so wrong. I'm not sure why, I especially like the house to be clean & tidy but he just don't care, he only do it on the surface. Once I started nagging ,he is not happy about it & started throwing things away even the things is still in good condition.What should I do ? Ignore?

doriz

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I think it is worth having a calm conversation with him when you are both not in the middle of an argument, because at 38 weeks you really do not need that extra stress on top of everything else. From what you shared, it sounds like there may be some deeper communication issues that are worth addressing together, maybe even with a counsellor, because hoping he changes on his own after the baby arrives can sometimes lead to more disappointment lah.

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