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I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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Older generation still prefer 1 month. Since it is your in law, ask your hub to deal with it. But honestly, if it is really just a financial issue, this kind of celebration won't really "lose" money as the invitees will give presents and angpaos.