Stress

I'm currently staying with my mother in law. I was planning to do 100days instead of 1st month because I feel have more time to prepare and would be easier in terms to booking venue and stuff. however, my mil is against the idea and insist on celebrating baby's 1st month. tried to explain to her our concern (financially) but she still kind of wants her way. don't wish to go against that because I'm worry might be seeing her black face... but I feel, baby is mine, so me and my husband should have th say instead of her. :/ I feel so not respected as my LO's parent.....

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Get your MIL to fork out everything lor for 1st month if she keep on insisting since you alrdy explain to her about your concerns regarding financial matters. Quickly move out from staying with in laws if can. It brings more harm than good, no matter how good and nice our in laws are. I've learn it the hard way.

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