I just fought with my mother in law. I am fed up of living with her and i will be asking my husband to choose between me or her. But I am scared he will choose her. Any strategy on how to ensure I get my way.

I would suggest you keep calm and let things slide if those things aren't principally important (your bottom line). I was on bad terms with my PILs as well, and I figured, they're old. They wont have much time to battle with you anymore. Never give anyone a chance to say you lack mannerism, it's an insult to your parents. Right now we're not so bad, at least we talk but we are all cautious about one another. Whatever my PILs say about me behind my back, I convey it to my husband. How he see the situation idc, I only let him know what his parents say about his wife and he be the judge what to do. We're waiting for our flat which completes estimate Apr 2022 might be delayed but better than nothing. 2 years very fast gone, I feel very hopeful already. 😊