Can I check any sahm mum with no helpers and no in laws/ parents help... when you give birth to number 2, where do your elder stay while you go Hospital?

I cannot relate to ur situation. Like the mummies above suggested, it might be a tough one that u have to bring the elder everywhere and get husband to be 24/7 with the elder and therefore he can't be with u. Another way, how old is ur older child? U or husband got any close friends? Get get them to help u see ur child for that couple of hours while u go hospital or husband run some errands or something?