I cheated on my wife during third trimester. It was random but i did it twice. Its eating me up! Keeping mum seems like my best option...any thoughts?

I feel sorry for your wife, who's living under the veil of a happy marriage. This is what I think - if you had the presence of mind to cheat on her twice, then the relationship is very well over. You just want the best of both worlds, don't you? I'm not sure if you expect a kind reply, but you're definitely not getting it from me.