Feeling down and resentful towards husband.. going to work soon (part time). Need somewhere to rant

I feel this is a societal problem with expecting women to be equal to man. By nature and psychology, nobody is equal right. There's a reason why women birth and care and thus cant be expected to work financially and be home managers and raise the family etc. Theres also a reason why men are stronger physically, neutrally swayed by emotions, do tasks differently too But then theres super feminists shouting for equality causing a mess in common sense lol. Its time to sit and talk it out. Singapore economy sucks so expecting both parents to 50/50 is stupid n rude. Maybe do a ratio share for the finances ? And sharing the workload and mental load appropriately too? I really hope u and ur family will get though this!!!