If words don't work, try throwing everything on him, ignore him and go out and enjoy yourself for 1 whole day. I heard about this approach in another group and it actually works! In that case, the husband was forced to handle the children and maybe the housework all by himself, and then he became appreciative towards his wife after that. And don't feel guilty about having your me-time - you are definitely entitled to it. Taking care of the children is also the father's job.
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