Enough

Sometimes I really don't know or don't understand my husband. Or maybe could say it is after married after I giving birth. We almost everyday quarrel, he just likes to do the thing I don't like, say so many times don't don't don't but my words are rubbish. Right ear in left ear out. I really had enough, I guess we both enough of each other. Please advice me! We already sit down and talk so many times but after that its happen again and again. We are tired. I just want a peaceful life.