cheated on me :(

Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.

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I am so sorry to hear about this & my heart goes out to you! While it is very easy to get angry and frustrated with this whole situation. This situation really calls for you to be as calm and composed as possible. Wait for him to confess it on his own, if after one or two weeks he doesn't come clean. Think about how you want to bring this topic up in conversation & what you want to achieve from this conversation. You might also want to reflect on your marriage to see if there are any major problems that caused him to act that way. Having said that, being in a drunken state doesn't give anyone the right to cheat on their partner.

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