cheated on me :(
Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.
Oh man, I can't imagine having to go through all that. Firstly, I think that you should ask him about it casually (e.g how was Bintan? Did you guys go to a bar and stuff? How was it?) and see if he tells you. If he does not, let him know that you had found out from someone about the hook up and see if he tells you the truth. If he still doesn't, let it settle for the time being but do observe his behaviour. If he starts behaving nicer and sweeter than usual, he could be trying to make up for his guilty conscience. Men usually will try to make up for something that they KNOW they did wrong. Whenever you feel that it's the right time, confront him about it and talk things out. Figure out the next step together instead of on your own.
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