cheated on me :(
Hubby just returned from a boys trip in Bintan and I snooped on his phone and found out he hooked up with a bar girl after getting drunk. I am livid and I don't know what to do. Pls advice.
Hugs. I'm sorry you have to go through this. First, stay calm. Try not to overthink. If you're a spiritual person, pray for strength and courage. Then ask and tell your husband about what you found out. The decision on what you're going to do next is entirely up to you. Only you know what is good for you right now. Just try not to let your emotions lead your decisions. P. S. I never agree on any boys trip of my hubby unless it is with people/friends that I trust. You know, sometimes, their friends are major factors and influences too on why some men cheat. It would be beneficial for the both you if you are surrounded by people who has your relationship's best interest in mind. Stay strong, love. Whatever other people say, YOU DIDN'T DESERVE TO BE CHEATED ON, regardless of your shortcomings. ^
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