Fully agree with Anonymous that it is normal. I also think that men by nature do not look into the small details like women do. Pregnant women tend to be a little edgier than before, so I suggest that you try to take it easy and don't stress yourself. Your husband may take charge more after your babies are born, and by then you have every reason to make him involved because you have 2 kids!
As for buying the baby stuff, maybe you don't have to seek his opinion and just go ahead and buy what you think is necessary, so that his job is only to pay and help you carry stuff. He probably doesn't care about such details and wouldn't mind what you choose.
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