Hi I am pregnant and it is unplanned. I am not sure whether to keep it or abort it

The father of the baby and I did it in our first date even tho I have no intention of having 2nd date.Few weeks later, my menses came late which quite rare to happen for me . He accompanied to see me a doctor and the doctor confirmed that I am pregnant despite being safe. Of course , He wants to abort it . I do understand why but I feel irresponsible to kill a life . I told my parents about it and they didn’t approve with the idea of abortion because they believe in karma /bad luck. I know being a single mom is tough but I don’t know if I can give this baby a good life . P.S My close friends , parents and even him felt that this baby is “lucky”

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Just wanna encourage you... don’t give up although it’s not easy but the baby is a precious life, what the baby needs is more then the $ aspect but the love from her mom.. yes there are many out there who would love to be pregnant, besides keeping the baby, legal adoption is also another option... also it took me 3 IVFs to conceive and many years of trying, pray you will carefully consider and believe you will be able to overcome the odds

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