Do you think you married 'the one'? Do you ever have doubts?

I think the concept of "the one" is a romantic notion planted in our heads by media and pop culture. It comes alongside the notion that "the one" will miraculously 'complete' you. In the first flush of a relationship, it could seem that way, but as the years roll by, you can't expect the marriage to thrive on feelings. Marriage, like any other relationship, requires commitment and work. Expecting your spouse to fulfill you is a recipe for disaster. It is too tall an order for a mere human being to fulfill!!! Your spouse is not God. He/she cannot read your mind or guess your moods or pre-empt your desires. He/she is just another faulty being like you, but you've signed up for the journey together. Think of your spouse as your companion for the journey--sure there will be ups and downs, and just because there are downs, it doesn't mean that he/she is not the one. It's what adds texture and depth to the relationship as both of you together work on your imperfections, God being your helper! Of course, there's no way he/she can be the one if you're in an abusive relationship!