Unhappy with my husband

Currently doing my confinement.. we have confinement nanny and really help eases a lot of work but I’m constantly unhappy seeing my husband staying up late to watch tv. Whereas I have to wake up every three hours to pump milk. Is there anything wrong of me feeling that way? I just feel So sian that he gets to sleep and he’s not sleeping whereas me having disturbed sleep every night

Vô danh

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I will call it “envious and jealous” instead. Pretty sure most bf mums will feel that way towards their husbands. Don’t mention they can sleep don’t want sleep, even when I see him sleeping and snoring while I need to pump, the temptation to strangle him is…..🫣.

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Vô danh

10mo trước

You can’t really do anything because it’s their choice to sacrifice sleep for leisure time. Initial stage you will feel this way because your body isn’t used to the constant waking and lack of sleep yet. Subsequently when you get used to it, you won’t get too bothered by him anymore. Find some long dramas to accompany your pumping so there’s something to let you look forward to waking up. If you want to try making him sleep early, let him take over all the evening and night feeds and diaper changing since he doesn’t want to sleep. Because now got nanny, he probably thinks everything can let nanny do. I didn’t hire any nanny so when my husband touches the bed, he KO already.

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