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For SAHMs, what is the monthly household income for you to be comfortable?

No real definition. It depends on what you need to provide for and whether you can manage it.

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What will you do if you have a spouse who always curses even in front of your children?

You need to sit down and explain to him that he’s not setting a good example for the kids

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Did you become closer to your mom when you had kids?

Yes I do.... now I realised how much she suffered n how much patient she was at her time... Love you mum...💖

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Is your biological family still your first go-to people when you have problems with your new family?

Yes. Especially when I have problems with my partner. I always open up to my mother. Just seeking for advice

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Hi all, my hubby always have headache when he is not doing anything so we tot of going to see TCM. Is Ma Guang good? Anyone have good encounters at Ma Guang? Or any good TCM to recommend in the west area?

I took my maid to Ma Kuang for her back, which never recovered and cost a bomb! I recommend Lu Yi Traditional Tuina Blk 492 Jurong West St 41 #01-16 Tel: 65674849

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Can anyone advise if red date tea can be consumed during menstruation or if it should be after our period has ended? Thanks!

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Hello, anyone still taking any soup or tonics after confinement? Could you recommend please? I am still feeling the strain, tiredness and all..

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aggressive Husband

Thinking of getting a divorce.. shld I? I know kids are innocent but I dunno what is in future for us.. he said I am not a good wife and mother.. feeling disappointing in life.. he even be rude to my parents. Said I shldn't say him cause I myself also rude to my parents. My way of talking to my parents is different from his. His tone is aggressive and pushy. I think no point of going marriage counselling..

There is always reason to go for counseling because divorce is more difficult and painful

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Hi, I am a stay home mom. My husband is working and studying part time. His study needs him to attend school 2 times a week and not forgetting his busy work schedule. The course will last for 3 to 5 years. I feel sad and worry that I he won't have time for baby and me. I understand that he have to go through this in order to progress at work and give me a better life. But I just scared and I am a very clingy wife... I really don't know what to do and how to feel. Just so mix up feeling right now.

dear, as most of the moms above mentioned. Scheduling time for the family is important. There is never a right time we have to dedicate and make time. In order for this to happen, you need to talk to your husband. It takes two to tango. Let him do his part and it will work out for you both. Blessings.

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RANT. I think I am having the laziest monster in law ever. My MIL is someone who doesn't cook, doesn't like to cook, doesn't want to cook person because o her washing a plate is a chore. Cleaning up the whole kitchen after a meal is a chore. My husband grow up not eating home cooked meals except for CNY, or on his birthday, they don't even sit together for a meal. I am currently living with in laws ever since I gave birth and btw I love to cook for my husband. Well in fact its better to eat home cooked food isn't it? We haven't got our own place yet. My MIL said she will help me during confinement and cook but by the 3rd day he say he was running out of ideas. She only cooked 2 soups which I told her what to put in, and that was it. The rest of the month I shopped at supermarket , cooked and clean up, take care of my newborn feed, clean, bathe, pump milk with my c sect wound still not healed yet. I at most have 2 hours sleep a day. Did she try to help looking after baby, sure she did. When I am cleaning baby, she stand next to me and watch, when I was bathing she stand next to me and splash water on baby, when I needed her to help when I took a break with husband, I came back with baby diaper not changed and she said that she knew he soiled his diaper and waited for me to cone home and change. When she feed baby, baby was basically sucking air. When baby was bloated and crying, instead of burping, she force feed more, or insist me on feeding him. When my milk supply ran low cause I was down with flu, she insisted my milk is drying up and want me to switch to formula totally. Among all this, she went around the family to spread untrue things about me to father in law, brother in law and my husband which caused unhappiness. This morning I went to the kitchen and found that she kept the container used for storing rice away, there was still some rice in the container for 1-2 more cooking. She have this dirty habit of throwing things away, even if its not hers to begin with. This is her way of telling me not to cook anymore as even if I were to cook only soup, she will instruct my FIL to scrub the kitchen floor. My poor father in law does laundry, ironing, clean up kitchen while she behaves like a Buddha sitting in front of the computer watching her Korean soap opera. I am not asking for any advise or sympathy here, i m just sick of her. Sick and tired of her and I can't stand even the sight of her or hear her voice.

A big hug mommy. Pls talk to your husband and also talk it out and let it go with your best friends. Pls don't bottle it up inside. By the way, it is good that you rant. You need a listening ear or some reading eyes. Take good care.

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