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Do you believe that it's good to have some mystery in your relationship even if you're already married?

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I not sure should I divorce with my husband a not. He do nth. But only everyweek give me $150 for buy food n cook. He always hear what his mum say. Dun even bother how I feel at all. When his mum wan see my baby girl. He just say ok to his mum. N NVR even tell me he wan bring over. Last min den say I bring baby girl back. I was like wth. Y NVR even tell me at all. He always discuss with his mum everything he plan. Never even tell me at all. Till I find out. I ask him. He reply me like not happy. After quarrel say tell me no use. I can't even do anything. But I'm his wife. I should know. Even I can't help right? Haix

Just let him bring your girl back. If u ask him, n he last min say he's bringing her back, just shrug it off n say ok loh. Then go shopping or hi tea. After awhile they get tired, they will reduce the frequency.

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New Zealand for holidays

Hi! We are planning for a family trip to New Zealand with my LO next year in March and by then LO will be 1year old . Just wondering any of u experienced bringing 1 year old to NZ? What are the things we need to prepare and look out for? Thank you in advance !

I brought mine to HK, Perth and Port Dickson. I brought my own electric lunchbox to cook food for my toddler since I'm quite on the ball for no salt no sugar no oil no artificial flavourings foods. We chose suites or apartment hotels so that we can cook after tours in the daytime. NZ has very fresh groceries and cooking there actually brings on new experiences and enjoyment of fresh products at a lower cost compared to SG. I love love their supermarkets.

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Hi, Can anyone suggest a gift I can give my Husby on birthday ...he's a fan of gadgets nd watches..which he already has a lot ..anythg apart from it ...

i immediately thought of a smartwatch since you mentioned gadgets and watches both...

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Hi mommies, anyone know how long does it takes to heal for a normal assisted delivery with stitches ? And how long can i have sex again with my husband? I am so worry about tearing again if I have sex.

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After 6 to 8 weeks should be fine(:

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Its our 10th wedding anniversary next month. I want to make it special but really running out of ideas (and time). I have a new baby and an older one so it has to be something inclusive and not too expensive.

Home stay with your partner, kids, movie marathon with the family, special cooked dinner, otherwise have s stay cation!

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Hi, I'll be attending my colleague's Indian wedding next Saturday .. at the Indian temple .. my first time attending an Indian wedding.. what makes a good gift for Indian wedding? How about giving red packet ? Roughly How much ?

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$50 on behalf of You and hubby would suffice. $100 if you are close.

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Other people say baby can help save failing relationship. But I dun get it. To me is got baby become worth. As can say my husband doesn't like kids. Always like to throw to his mum side to take care. But I doesn't like his mum side to take care. Cos they will keep carry the baby . can carry up to 2/3 hr if baby dun sleep. I know elderly like baby. But this is too much. And I have no right to say them. If I say them. My husband will quarrel with me. I'm alone taking care baby. But when going back my mother in law house. My lo come back doesn't want to sleep. Keep crying non stop. Just wan to be carried. I'm really tired of this. And husband saw and he doesn't want to care.

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I believe the baby is cause of you and your husband decision, how can he say he don’t like and don’t care. I will talk to him and seek a mutual agreement on the care taker, cause it’s really so tired doing it alone.

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When I am 18 yr old I found pregnant. Is too late to know, already 5.5 month old. Have to keen the baby. Den I married to the kids father. Actually everything is ok. My husband always listen to what i say. Cos he and his mum relationship is not good. Seldom talk. But one day his mum asked me how to talk to his son. And understand . I told her how his feel. And his mum changed try to understand him n give him what he want if she can give. But slowly my husband less talk with me. N start talk more to his mum. And slowly me n my husband relationship is getting bad and bad. Always quarrel. Till the limit he hit me on my head have a lot blood. Went to hospital. He cry~ and say sorry to me. I not sure is cry for dun report him to police or he really feel he is in wrong. My heart is soft. I lie to police I own self fall down. I discharge from hospital. Went back to MIL house. Cos I'm staying there. His mum started talking to me. And say his son beat me is good. Who ask me to make him angry and those hurt word to me. I almost feel mad if continue staying there. I moved back to my mum house and he moved with me. My bro let his room to me. And he share with mum. Actually everything is good. Less quarrel. My husband start to care of me. But slowly. My son turning 1yr old. His mum request every Friday night stay her house till Sunday night. I agree . cos I know they miss him. At first my son super close to me and my mum. After that he went back from MIL house. He become dun want me n my mum. Still hit us for nothing. Keep finding my husband. I feel something wrong. In between monday-_ Thursday I try to win him back. My son den tell me say 奶奶 say I'm a bad mother and say my house house not good too. How can a 奶奶 teach a kids this?!! I told my husband he dun believe me! He say I think too much. One day I let my son own self say. My husband hear. But he doesn't care. After that we quarrel again. Quarrel almost a year. July 2015 found pregnant again. Slowly know is a girl. I wanted to keen. Cos almost 99℅ father like daughter the most. April 2016 give birth. From the start knowing is girl. My husband start to be good to me. Buy me good food to eat. Bring me to beach walk. I'm pregnancy for 7 month. He say his mum wan baby girl to stay with her. Say she want to be close to baby girl. How can it be like this! I'm the mother should be me to close with baby girl. After that I n my husband quarrel again. He shout at me den dun give birth. If wan give birth I own self feed her. Dun use his any cert. I cry almost the whole night. He pushed me. My stomach feel very very pain like hell. But no blood. My mum bring me to kkh to check up. When I otw I told my baby girl. Pls her dun leave me. I need her. After that my stomach not pain at all. I'm still worry. Is it gone? Doctor checked the baby. Say baby is fine. I hear the heart beat. I finally cool down my self. " thank god!" I went home. My husband at my room. He say how is the baby. I feel happy cos I tot he still caring. I replied say fine. Den he went to kitchen call his mum say baby is fine. His mum just want the baby! His mum still tell my husband. This women dun want. Can find a better one. Say kids they take. Say she got money can feed 2 kids. F! How a mother teach his son this?! One day my husband take a off day went out with his friend for the whole day till the next month. He started talking to me. Say his friend told him. If he want to listen to his mum. Den y at first do wrong thing to make a girl pregnant. If u dun love the girl why still married. His friend told him. "If I'm a bad girl like that his mum say. I already run away. Why still care how u feel?" My husband say he think carefully already. No matter what his mum say he also won't leave me. Slowly we moved to a rental flat. Just opps his mum house. I thinking confirm will quarrel again. I'm trying my best to let his mum accept me. But since from the start she already dun like me. Maybe cos they from China different thinking? Can anyone till me should I continue this relationship? His mum say if divorce 2 kids must give to father. As his mum is rich. But I need the kids. What should I do? I'm only 21yr old. My husband is 22 yr old...

No one needs to tolerate any form of abuse, emotional, mental or physical. You need to stand your ground and respect yourself. If you dont make your decisions nothing can help you get out of the pit. Age should not be an issue or excuse. Anyways, i would apply for a personal protection order. Subsequently, leave him. For the safety of you and your child.

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Why isit that I always feel I try too hard to ensure that my hubby is happy? The tiniest thing that I say or do which may unknowing cause unhappiness to him will end up in him ignoring me for a very long time. The tiniest thing that my kids does to irritating him will also end up in him ignoring me for a very long time. He's rude to me always. Showing temper and black face. I feel sad. Whenever he does or says things that hurt me, I'm ok with him soon after and he acts as though nothing happened. How and what can I do to feel appreciated?

Was he like this right from the beginning ? Sometimes it may be his character not to say out things that he is unhappy with ... n just Keep within him

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