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How did you husband propose to you? Share some proposal stories, mummies (yes, it's the Valentine's Day bug).

Proposed after we had dated for 1 year and one day randomly he took me to the church and we secretly got married 😊

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Asking for a friend - what can she do if her sex drive doesn't come back? Her baby is now 9 months old.

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who should take care of baby

I will be giving birth in another 5 months and my sister-in-law just found out she is pregnant too. Thus, my mother-in-law will be the one taking care of the babies. However, my MIL has stated her preference to stay with SIL instead of staying in my house. Which option is better in your opinion? 1. Get my relative, aunt who stays nearby to take care of my baby so baby can enjoy one-to-one attention. 2. Appoint a maid and share with SIL, to assist my MIL to take care of my baby and hers. My MIL has helped me to take care of my elder kid and so far I am comfortable with her.

If I am in your situation, I will choose Option No.2. This is because I prefer one to one attention when a baby is still young. Imagine 2 babies are crying together and your MIL will be at lost what to do.

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Did you and your husband have a "chat" about how to parent and come up with some basic ground rules -- about bedtime routines, how to say no, discipline etc...or did you just play it by ear? I find that my husband and I often have very different perspectives on things like who should our kid have a playdate with, outdoor vs indoor time etc...how did you resolve your differences?

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I hear him out, but before we got married I had already made it clear that if we have differences of opinion and it's about the kids - I get final call. Have not exercised that card yet, cause we seem to be on the same page for most things.

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Does watching porn together help in bedroom passion? I am afraid my partner might judge me?

I like watching soft porn with my partner rather than crazy stuff. I feel that triggers my partner and me better than hard core that feels completely scripted.

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How to exercise influence on husband? Any timeless tips which always work ;)

Oh god, you're planning to screw my kind, lol. But yeah, just be who you are, and honest ;) If you want to get something out of him, some work done, just say it.

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My child is having bad phlegm and cough. Is there any TCM massage that can helps to clear the phlegm?

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My mother in law has been a big help with the baby - but she is always around - and insists that the baby be in her room at night - so that I can get some sleep. As a result I am getting no "alone time" with my baby. It is making me feel miserable...but she is so helpful - how do i say something without hurting her feelings.

Please talk to her and explain that you would like to spend sometime with the baby then she could help here and there in some other days

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My mum-in-law is angry because my husband and I don't want to take our new baby to her house for a holiday party. There will be a lot of people there, and even our paediatrician advised against it because it's flu season and our baby's only 3 weeks old. How can we help her understand that it's nothing against her, we just don't want our newborn getting sick?

This is tricky. But I think there is no other way around it other than to explain to her nicely. Appreciate her effort for organizing the party. She probably just hopes to show off her grandchild to the guests. Perhaps you can offer an alternative and invite some of her guests to the baby's first month party?

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I am married to a control freak. He lies and he makes up stories to get people to see his way. I have never been on my own. I want to leave so bad. I have a job and can support myself, however, I don't want my kids to suffer growing up in a broken home. What should I do?

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