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I found sexually explicit photos on my daughter's iPhone; should I punish her?

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My Mother and i don't have a great relationship. Infact I would classify it as a toxic relationship. She's always been upset that I don't "obey" her and that I march to my own beat. She's a highly controlling and manipulative woman and does things to please others outside the family unit (Super Dr Jekyll N Hyde personality). The world adores her but I am not a huge fan. I feel she has been one of the most damaging influences in my life and I am grateful that I am no longer in her clutches. (We are very civil to each other, though). Anyway, ever since I had a child, my mother has been wanting to get close to her grandchild. I can see that she adores my child and wants to build a bond. However, I still keep her at arms length from my child as I am worried that she will do the same to my child. My Mother can't help but be toxic and manipulative. It's in her DNA. And no use talking to my mum about her behaviour as she is in complete denial to her behaviour, and will play the victim card, where I will come across as the big bully. I struggle with finding the right balance of how much exposure my child should have to her grandma. As I am currently letting her spend two days a month at my parents and my mother wants to spend much more time. Any advice for me?

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How do you convince your parents to stop being controlling after a particular age say 15?

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Division of household bills

How do you divide the household bills? Who pays for what, if you are both working.

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Both of us have joint account and all bills will be deduct from the account. we are not so calculative for bills as both had to contribute ☺

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Hi, anyone been to Chiang Mai in December? Is it a nice place to bring family with kids? My two kids are 8 and 14 months (by dec) .. Any nice place to visit or nice hotel in Chiang Mai to recommend ?

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I am a SAHM with 2 kids. I left my high pay job to care for my child as we are unable to find a good nanny nor helper and we got no help from our parents. At the beginning, I am still using my own saving from family expanse so there is no attitude change in my hubby. The moment I start getting household allowance he started to give me black face. He never help out in the house or make decisions for kids by giving excuse like he respect all my decisions but will start showing me his black face when I don't see eye to eye on his "opinion or decision". For example, he want to see his parents on one Sunday and I told him I will prefer to stay at home to rest due to the sleepless night as my kid is teething. He will say ok but start showing black face or talk to me rudely until I give in. He also stop communicating with me saying that he don't understand my "housewife" mindset or complaining that I talk to him at wrong hours. But there is never a time to talk to him at all. For example, he told me not to discuss anything with him before he go to work, on his way to work, during his work time, during his lunch time, right after he come home, while he is eating or playing his phone nor before he sleep. Also he expected me to keep house spank and clean, preparing dinner on top of caring for our girls and visiting his parents every week. (I don't really like to visit my in-laws as they did the same to me right after I resigned to be a housewife.) If I don't, he will start shout and showing me "black face" again. With all those requirements to fulfil, he expect me to be loving and send him "love" message every day. When I try to explain to him, he will start comparing me with his friends' Wife and start belittle my characters. I don't feel love at all from him or respect by his family and start thinking if I should get a job and start planning my divorce with him as he only use me as a helper. However, I am concern for my kids as they are still so young. What should I do?

sorry to hear about the situation you are in... it's really unfair what they expect of mothers. sigh agree with the other answer that perhaps you can consider a childcare and going back to work. mayb can start with a part time job first, and see whether things get better in your marriage. give it another shot before considering divorce because that's going to be tough on you and your child too. hope things get better soon, and stay strong! we women are made to be strong and withstand harder times!

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Looking at Boracay for Xmas, can anyone recommend where to stay? So many choices and which beach is best to be near?

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I've heard good things about shangrila boracay however it's not on the main beach. I always stay in two seasons and Discovery shores. It's in the "quieter" part of the beach.

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Does anyone know if Cathay has soymilk as an option on flight? Just want to see if we should bring our own for baby who has dairy allergies.

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Better bring your own as you dont know which brand are they using.

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If you staying with your in-laws, how do define improper attire? Does not wearing a bra considered as improper?

A shirt, sleeveless or even spaghetti straps plus shorts (not too skimpy) should be fine. I agree that it's all about respect. Improper attire would be if your private parts are showing or almost showing already.

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My 5 year old son threatens to run away or say that we don't love him or say very disturbing, self-deprecating things when he doesn't get what he wants. How do we deal with this?

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