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Confinement food worries

Hi to all experienced moms, First time mom here and was wondering a few things for confinement. I do not have any help as both my parents and in laws are working. - When do you start confinement food? Do I order it for the day after I’m discharged or a week after? - how many days of confinement food is enough? 20 days enough? #advicepls #firstbaby #bantusharing #pregnancy

start from the day u back to home, standard practice is 28days but u can extend if u wish to

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Just needed a place to rant.. my husband is getting lazier in terms of looking after our baby.. I'm the one who carried out all the night duties (change daiper and make milk). He basically just sleep like a log.. fyi I'm also working as well.. when he reaches home after work or during weekend he also hardly helps out.. maybe just awhile and he will stick to his phone.. he even commented that our baby is very difficult to take care.. he even commented that our baby only knows how cry, drink milk and sleep.. this breaks my heart when he made that remark.. you don't even spend time to take care of him and understand him and yet you make that remark.. Sometimes i just feel very tired and very angry with my husband.. Finish ranting..

Hi there mama, My heart goes out to you. Please try to communicate what and how you’re feeling to your hubby. While it is true that, babies are not an easy addition to the family, it is also important for couples to communicate. Some husbands may find themselves at a loss when it comes to baby as they are detached throughout the process of birth as well as raising baby. Because the whole process involves a woman’s body mostly, they may find it difficult to be emotionally invested. There may be something he’s not telling you too. I’m not making excuses for him either okay? Just think that you two should have a heart to heart because you need his support. Parenting is tough enough, no need to make it tougher. Your child needs his father. If it’s difficult for both of you to communicate, get someone to mediate for you. Stay strong mama. You’re doing an amazing job.

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Post missed miscarriage.

Hello mummies, I just gave birth to stillbirth 3weeks ago. Yesterday went back to reviews my results to find out what's causes for my missed miscarriage, blood test and placenta both was fine, except for I had sticky blood, so therefore there's no reasons for my baby death.. Dr recommends me to try for another baby 6months later... anyone had such " sticky blood " before? It's my first time, first time hearing such thing, I don't quite understand too..

not sure is it blood too thick and not able to flow properly?

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Can I use massage chair in early pregnancy at 13 weeks?

Hi mummies, can I still use massage chair at 13 weeks?

Not recommended

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How much are ur LO drinking at 4 months

Hi mummies, need some advice! My LO is coming 4 months old, and I suspect he has reflux as he spits up milk often and has wet burps etc. from what I googled. Hence we always put him upright 30 min after feeds. We are trying to do lesser quantity but more often now, every 2-2.5 hourly. How much are your babies drinking at 3.5-4 months? When we try 100ml, it seems he spits up lesser and sometimes none now. But after feeds he cries and wants more, if we give more he will vomit or spit milk. What should I do? He’s still producing wet diaper and poops daily. Gaining weight now at 7.7kg coming 4 months old. #1stimemom #advicepls

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Does baby burp after every feed?

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Negative responses when revealing gender

Honestly quite disappointed by some elders' immediate responses when we told them we are expecting a girl (first child). So my question is: Anyone faced similar comments? Pls share! **Most replies here are advocating 'just ignore', 'don't be bothered'. 😂 Haha, but my question is NOT 'Should I ignore them?' Of course I smiled and ignored them out of courtesy! But still bothered, and wondering if any mummy is in the same boat, to feel less alone and less frustrated in this pretty uncommon situation! And yes of cos hub & I will love our girl all the same.** Instead of congratulatory words, these were their responses. FIL went "Oh, 不要紧 la (never mind)." Uh, what is there even to mind in the very first place? He's never talked about the pregnancy since then, no small talk, no concern. Nothing. SIL went, "Oh, what did Father say about you having a girl?" the very moment we told her we are having a girl. I guess we all knew FIL would rather have a grandson for his first grandchild. Aunt went, "Oh...next one can have a boy." Wow. As if we didn't do a good job this time but oh we can try to excel next time. Huh(?!)

I feel you! Even at my work place those cleaners will say “nvm, girl also good” but in the first place, I didn’t even say girl is not good and I didn’t ask for their opinion.. things became worst after I gave birth because my father in law didn’t even come and visit baby. Throughout my pregnancy, they didn’t even ask about me. It’s okay, next time don’t let them see baby. That’s what I am going to do since they prefer boy..

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Removing bikini hair below

Hello mummies, anyone did bikini or brazilian waxing/sugaring? I'm at 33 weeks & thinking if going before delivery. Went to Pink Parlor today but I walked out half way cuz I can't stand the pain 😂 tried Veet at home too but my skin can't take it, too inflammatory 😭

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Hey Maruko, sounds like you have very sensitive skin. It may be best to just trim with a pair of scissors. 😅

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Hi Mummies, how old is your baby when you first introduced solid food? I know some parentd introduce earlier than 6mths. Pls share/recommend the first food to introduce to my baby.

4m, apple puree n gerber rice cereal. just abit once a week

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What are the side effects of epidural during labor? Please share your experience if you had any. Thanks :)

Vomit right away after the baby is out. It was crazy i wouldn’t use epidural anymore

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My baby is 6 days old and she is wheezing upon checking with doc they said it’s normal for new born. But I can feel she has phlegm in her chest so I bought Vicks Vaporub and rub on her chest, throat and her back. As I’m not aware of baby Vicks. Advise me if anyone has experienced with me. This is the product that I used. Tq

Vicks Vaporub

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please read packaging if I'm not wrong there's a line stated do not use for children under 2 years old

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