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Sanitary pants pad

Hi anyone used pants type sanitary napkin before? Is it good to use after delivery? Thank you :)

yes very convenient since it’s well padded and u no need to wash underwear. must get more in fact.. kotex overnight highly recommended

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Change of surname

Hi mothers, I have a question that I’m unclear about, my son is having my surname I am his mother, may I know how much fees do I need to pay if I change his surname in ica after his birthday is over

Hi mummy, this is according to my own experience. My Deedpoll fees was around $150 4-5 years back. And depending whether your son has already taken an ic, that would be another $70-$80. That is all the charges you need to pay as you cannot change the name on the birthcert. I’m not sure about your situation but for kids below 21, do note that both parents have to be present to sign the Deedpoll. :)

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Any mummies experience low threshold of pee after giving birth? Like you can't hold it in for long and if you were to go toilet late, you'd pee in yr pants? 😭It's been a year since birth and i realise i cant hold it in for long. Usually it'll flow automatically and it's so embarrassing 🙄 any ideas how i can regain back the "control" ? Will a massage help? Or any exercises i can do?

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Hi, Google kegel exercise for women. It’s all over on YouTube as well. This will help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles for better bladder control.

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Doctor’s visit

Hi Mummies, When you all go for doctor’s visit and knowing the doctor will do vaginal scan, will you all shave/trim your bush? I always did nothing about it (I’m an IUI mummy and was always seen down there). Recently, my husband accompanied me for detailed scan then he joked that I was very hairy down there and the doctor can see.. so will you shave/wax/trim your bush if you know the doctor is going to do a vaginal scan? 🥲

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Lazy & sleepy during third trimester

Hi, I’m a promoter working at electrical store selling refrigerator & washer. I was pull into this line by my husband as soon as he realise I was pregnant, as his company allow me to get maternity leave. But recently things have changed ever since I enter my third trimester, I became really sleepy & tired, I don’t have the energy to run around the sales floor catching customer (Our job required a lot of standing, running & talking to customer) & now even to the extent I’ve been taking mc & leave whenever I’m lazy to go to work. My husband is furious about my Performance at work and ask me to reflect myself as I’ve been losing to my competitors brand. I tried to explain to him that I’ve never experienced this tired in my life and he said it’s just an excuse because every pregnant lady he know isn’t as lazy as me. I find myself having the right to rest but I felt bad for letting my husband and company down. Will I still be this tired after my baby is born because from what I know it is even worst. I’m thinking of quitting after my maternity leave since I’ve bad performance nowadays.

Pardon my language but some man are really dogs! If u think 3rd trimester is bad than my dear wait till you give birth. Baby will feed every 2 to 3hrs day N night. This will continue for at least 4 to 6 months. Telling u this so u can mentally prepare urself. The way your husband speak to you...u better have ur parents or his parents or get nanny to help you in the first 1 to 2 months after u give birth so that you can regain ur health. As for the job just quit n rest first once your baby older you can always work again. Remember this your health is the most important, your baby will depend on you. Take care my love.

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Presch - nearby or Montessori

Should I send my 18 mo to a non Montessori sch nearby (2 km) or Montessori sch further away (5km)? I like the Montessori concept but thinking if I need to start at 18 mo or I can start later at nursery or k1

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If you can afford, start early is ok. Cause they will mingle with older kids and learn from them. For choosing, there’s no right or wrong, suggest you visit and interview both schools and make your judgement which you prefer.

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Long term side-effects of IVF 😨

IVF may exacerbate the risk of craniosynostosis in babies. Here’s everything you need to know about it. https://sg.theasianparent.com/long-term-side-effects-of-ivf

Long term side-effects of IVF 😨

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Backpack bag with plenty of pockets

Any Recommendations for a Backpack bag with plenty of pockets and easy to use? Need not be expensive, but it must be practical. Am still using the Mount Alvernia backpack, but it has limited pockets and the zip is more difficult to open.

Super Mom

I LOVE LOVE LOVE Jujube bags not only because it’s a diaper bag but it’s got a pocket for everything and keeps me SERIOUSLY organised.

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White dot in girl private part

Hi mummies, would like to ask about, my girl is 2 years old. And she felt pain and itchiness in her private part. And I found a small white dot in thr private part too. What can I do with it? My mil told me to apply 'XI GUA SHUANG HOU FENG SAN' on the white dot. And told me it is like a ulcer.

Super Mom

I would take her to the pediatrician to have it checked out since it’s causing her discomfort

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confinement lady

any recommendations for confinement agency/name of confinement lady please? thanks

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Pem, rec to engage agencies so in any event of you are unhappy with the cl, can change

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