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Playgroup PCF Sparkle tots

Hi mummies, would like to check how early in advance do we need to enroll our kids if we would like to send him to playgroup at 18 months? Thank you

asap haha. best to be kiasu

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What are the food to be avoided after confinement ? Cannot eat cooling food for how long?

What are the food to be avoided after confinement ? Cannot eat cooling food for how long?

Depends on individual and comfort. I just ate normally after confinement without avoiding anything except for alcohol (bf). Some breastfeeding mummies still continue to eat confinement food after confinement if budget allows.

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PRENURSERY/PLAYGROUP SLOT

Hi mummies/daddies. I am a FTM and my LO is currently 16.5 mo. The last I checked on ECDA’s website, all 6 CC near me have no vacancies for the next 1 year. I always heard people saying they go and look for MP but I emailed in and MP mentioned they cannot do anything. Anyone have any tips or suggestions? Mummies who went to look for MP, did it help? I am looking to enrol my kid in N1 next year Jan. Appreciate all advices! Thank you. #advicepls

1. try meet people session, face to face talk 2. walk in childcare to check instead of checking the website

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First Period After Pregnancy

Heard that if mummies did not breastfeed your LO , period will come. Just want to know did any mummies first period come a lot after pregnancy? Mine came a lot till my pad overflow and totally full 🥲 is it normal?

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Rant about Mother in law

I don’t mean to be unappreciative, but I don’t like the way how my mother in law says or do somethings to my LO. Like for example, she wants to help me feed. While I’m making milk, she keep saying things like “faster faster baby hungry already” or “mama so slow, baby is hungry already hor” I’m like wtf? So I pretend to “scold” my baby and said “baby must be patience, mama don’t mean to make u wait” or “mama know u hungry, but milk milk don’t come instantly” She keep urging baby to do things like faster drink milk, faster burp, faster sleep. Faster this faster that. Like hey… babies aren’t developed to follow this rhythm leh. There are many occasions where my MIL “blames” us and I keep correcting her bcos I believe my LO will listen And my mother in law keep carry baby the moment he cried. Like make 1 sound, she will straight go carry. Sigh 😔 im so worried that baby will develop the carry habit I told her before but she just can’t stop doing it. Even my husband also told her not to and she just don’t remember.

I hear you babe! Sometimes things get tricky with in laws. I suggest try to discuss in detail with your husband and ask him to talk straight with his mother on this. After all you should be able to have the parenting style you want as he is your baby first

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My sis in law jus gave birth to a baby boy..suppose to be happy but yet i dont feel happy at all and feel jealous.. why? Coz my PIL dote the newborn baby than my son now.. lastime when i gave birth to my first LO, my PIL will give full attention to my LO, now with the new bb, i feel they no longer TLC my LO..most ridiculous thing is both my PIL hp put the newborn bb photo as screen saver... completely removed my son's pic now. Everyday see they carry the newborn bb up n down 🙄see also sian.. my son also their grandson..why lidat.... upset n jealous...

Honestly i wouldnt bother about my in law whether they love or dont love. The kid is mine, as long as we parents love them ok liao. Or mayb this is just how i would feel. Nth to be jealous of 😅. U had ur turn tat ur pil love ur son also mah… not like they nv love him before

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Chicken Vs no chicken

Anyone avoid eating chicken after csect? How long after then you start eating chicken again?

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Hi mommys, I like to ask about abortion in sg Anyone ever do abortion recently or maybe Ard last year? Because me and my partner had 'do the thing' then no protection, but he never put inside at all before and he doesn't believe without protection 80% high chance can get pregnant die die don't want believe me coz this one I asked doctor one when I pregnant my first child. Now I'm cfem pregnant again where I can keep because due to my financial is really damn low and my partner unable to work for temporary due to his medical issue he will be going for operations again which I dont know when because he have kidney stone last 2 years but didn't go for operations now he need to go because the stone too big blocking his appendix. So now I have no choice I have to endure with the heart pain go abort my 2nd child as I can't affort to support . Now I'm super stress as I don't want to stay in the hospital if possible to just eat 💊 and abort it. Any advice pls 😭😭anyway I'm no longer underage old enough to do things under own consent.

Hey. Life is so precious. I would encourage you to approach Alife and speak to them. https://www.alife.org.sg/alma There is this aLife Mothers' Assistance (ALMA) which help alleviate hardships faced by new mothers from low-income families with young or 'special needs' children, to ensure that these children do not go without basic sustenance in their crucial growing years.

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Chrysanthemum Tea

I accidentally drank two sips of chrysanthemum tea and I just researched that it’s not safe!!!!! Oh no ! #preg1stbaby

2 sips are okay. just eat or drink everything in moderation. avoid raw food especially in 1st tri

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What was your baby's weight when he was born?

Comment your answer and see How many of you have delivered a large baby 🙄

What was your baby's weight when he was born?

39 weeks at 2.938kg

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