Feel jealousy

My sis in law jus gave birth to a baby boy..suppose to be happy but yet i dont feel happy at all and feel jealous.. why? Coz my PIL dote the newborn baby than my son now.. lastime when i gave birth to my first LO, my PIL will give full attention to my LO, now with the new bb, i feel they no longer TLC my LO..most ridiculous thing is both my PIL hp put the newborn bb photo as screen saver... completely removed my son's pic now. Everyday see they carry the newborn bb up n down 🙄see also sian.. my son also their grandson..why lidat.... upset n jealous...

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its normal that everyone will fuss over the newborn. most imptly you must take care of your LO feelings as he may feel jealous. my girl told me her gonggong dont love her anymore cause she is older already vs her newborn cousin when she was only 2.5 years old. so we told my pil and they started to give her more attention as well!

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2y trước

yeah, my son also feel jealous, When my PIL always carry the newborn, my son will pull them away immd.. 😅my son only 3yo...

Honestly i wouldnt bother about my in law whether they love or dont love. The kid is mine, as long as we parents love them ok liao. Or mayb this is just how i would feel. Nth to be jealous of 😅. U had ur turn tat ur pil love ur son also mah… not like they nv love him before

2y trước

Bo bian got to learn. I also dunno how my ger gonna accept my #2. She was happy to c ultrasound photos n point.. when come out dunno how hahahaha