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Leave baby in the care of MIL who wishes to stay in the car

My MIL says she wanted to stay in the vehicle car and to wait inside the car with the baby at the car park while we (the parents) go visit the temple. It is suffocating to stay in the car. I read about article adult accidentally leave baby in car and compromise the safety of infant. MIL says she could wind down the car windows & sit in the car with the baby. I really doubt it. She can take the stuffy air, but how can I as a parent allow my baby to subject to risk mths ? How can I enjoy a peace of mind and leave baby in her care ?!

Next time offer her a drink at the coffeeshop and ask her to wait there while you go pray?

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Moms with C sect experience

Dear Mommies, I delivered my baby through C sect, 10 weeks ago. Recovery so far has been good, however, I've been feeling pinching & burning sensation inside of my stomach around the incision area, specially on the left side. Wanted to know if it's normal? Any suggestion to relieve it? TIA #advicepls #Csection #mom

Go to the doctor and get checked to be safe

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Friendship woes

I have a close friend and we know each other for 10 over years. However I find she kind of bo liao in the sense that little things also wanna complain. We got pregnant almost same time and our sons are just few months apart. She always like to boast about her son and her life too. I've cut contact a few times with her and the latest move being 1 year ago. She did keep msging me and ask what happened. After that she stopped. We bumped into each other once but never talk. 1 year later she msg me again and ask I'm still angry? My question is should I contact her back? I feel touched that I ignored her so long she still keep msg me. But the thing is i feel my life is rather peaceful when we are not in contact. 😂 what should I do? This cycle of me cut contact and get back in contact keeps repeating. However i do feel quite happy to see her that day. But at the same time I feel if contact her back my life will not be as peaceful? 😅Or maybe cuz im the type who dont like to bitch. She will boast about how smart her son is 3 years old and boast about her life where she went to eat etc. I ever hint her before don't have to tell me so much about her life almost everyday but she said cuz im her best friend and she just want to share with me. Anyone #pleasehelp

i hate it when ppl compares and its just annoying. probably just hi bye friend will do. i have a friend who just decided to unfollow me on ig and we didnt msg each other anymore, felt sad cos i dont know what i did but i guess everyone move on

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Anti colic bottle

My baby is very gassy and currently use pigeon. Any recommendation to change brand? Heard dr brown has the anti colic feature, anyone tried and it works? and bb doesnt like slow flow

Tommi Tippie is good too!

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Confinement Cathering

Hello guys, any confinement cathering companies to recommend?

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When to do passport for my baby?

When to apply passport for my baby?How to do it?

but what if baby face changes when he becomes older and the passport cannot be used anymore? still need to make a new one right (with updated photo)?

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How to clean baby ears?

Hi munmies do you clean your baby’s ears? Inner and outer? How u do it?

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Burntout stress

Yesterday, it was the hardest day for me. Almost 24 hr i didnt manage to get sleep due to my daughter , 6 month old was awake from 7pm to 7am in the morning. Until my husband is back from night shify. Thruout that 12 hr she sleep 20min and then keep crying and crying. I was going crazy. I dont know why is she like this. I had a toddler to handle too. Any moms going through a period that baby cry and cant be console or comfort?

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New Mt Alvernia maternity wards

Anyone already experienced the new wards at the new St Anne building? Able to share how was the experience like and what ward type you went for? Thanks! Personally deciding between normal single and premium single since the price difference isn’t significant. #pleasehelp

From what I've gathered, the new St Anne Mother and Child Centre has quite a range, Premium Suite, Junior Suite, Premium Single, Standard Single, and Double rooms, so there's something for different budgets and needs. Since you're deciding between Standard Single and Premium Single and the price gap isn't huge, I'd lean toward Premium Single just for that extra comfort during recovery, especially if you're planning to have your husband room in. A friend who delivered there recently said the newer facilities do make a difference in how rested you feel those first few days. That said, it's worth asking the hospital directly what exactly differs between the two room types in terms of size and amenities, so you can judge if the upgrade is worth it for your specific situation.

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Safe sex after birth

I just went thru csect a month ago and not intending to get pregnant for atleast 2-3 years, cause aside from the safe age gap for csect, my labor was extremely traumatising. For protection im not sure if i should go on birth control pills or just use condoms. Im scared if ill still accidently get pregnant with protection. Any mummies managed to not get pregnant with just using condom? As im scared pills will mess up my hormones and the bad side effect. Or if you’re in birth control, with minimum side effect, can share with me #FTM

Totally understand your worry, after a traumatic C-section, the last thing you want is an accidental pregnancy so soon. Condoms alone can work, but someone in my mum group mentioned that real-world effectiveness is closer to 70-80% with typical use (not perfect use), so relying on them alone feels a bit risky for a 2-3 year gap. If you're concerned about hormone side effects, the progesterone-only pill (POP) is often gentler than the combined pill, and many mums find it easier to tolerate, though a small number do still experience mood or cycle changes. Honestly, the safest approach most doctors here seem to recommend is combining both, pills plus condoms, so you have a backup if one fails. It might be worth a proper chat with your gynae who did your C-section, since they already know your history and can help you weigh which pill type suits your body best.

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