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Coffee During Confinement

Does any of you still drink just 1 cup of coffee during confinement or breast feeding period? Now I'm in my 3rd trimester and I still drink just 1 cup of coffee a day. If I don't drink I will have a very bad headache. Worried what will happen if I drink when I bf

I drank once a day after confinement. My bb is coming to 5 months and I m still breastfeeding. I will always drink after her first morning feed.

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Second child at 38 ?

Hi mummies … I have a 2+ years old son and we’re considering a second one.. I’m 38 this year.. I’m a bit worried if I’m too old to have another? I’m worried if I’m healthy and strong enough to have a second baby and complications of pregnancy… Anyone in the same boat care to share any advice? Also I kind of had post partum depression when I had my first kid… was so stressed about him crying all the time and not knowing what he wants etc …

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Suggest Doctor in SGH for infertility

Hi...pls suggest best doctor in SGH for infertility issues.

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Playpen or play yard

Hi mummies Which brand of playpen or play yard u guys using? And isit better to get playpen or play yard. ? I assume playpen is mesh kind and play yard is smth harder?

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Am I just being unreasonable for feeling this way

My sis in law went out with me & my hubby and said she wanted to bring my 14 month son back for sleepover at her grandma's hse. I felt offended that she didn't even ask for my permission beforehand. She only told us she wanna bring my son with her at the very last min while she was booking her taxi. My husband allowed her to bring but I didn't even had the chance to say yes or no. My husband didn't even ask me if I'm ok with it. Next day before she sends my son to my house, she went to shave my son's hair without informing me or my husband beforehand. I was really mad at her and she just smiled(as if it was nothing) and said that she wanted to surprise us with it. My hubby & I were actually planning to trim our son's hair in the next few days but my Sis-I-L just decided to shave all of my son's hair. She said that "Aiyo I pity my nephew. Better for him so he not stuffy with long hair". I felt like wow what a shitty reason. My husband was ok with it eventually. I feel so offended that my hubby n his sis don't even let me make decisions in things relating to my son.

Your baby, your rule. Stand firm and never get pushed around. But make sure you’re a very hands on mom and don’t rely on your sil in child care.

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Husband watches porn and i cant be mad

Recently I found out my husband watches porn. I don't know how to feel about it. Is that considered cheating? Finally, because I couldn't calm down, I asked my husband about it, and he said... I don't have the right to be angry because all guys do it... I just want to get an outsider's opinion on how to keep it from ruining the whole relationship?

Please ask him don’t speak for all guys. You are entitled to feel whatever you’re feeling towards this.

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Mensus after delivered

My mensus haven't come even after I stopped breastfeeding for 3months. Should I go to see doctor for checkup? Any mummy have same problem before?

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Can someone help me understand the mentality of sahm?

Can someone help me understand the mentality of sahm? So often have I come across sahm or daddies whose wives are sahm who came and persuade me to quit my job and be a sahm for the kids. They always told me that kids grow up so fast and that I should treasure the time with my kids while they are young. They always told me that money can always be earned but we can never earned back the time lost. When I told them I would consider or straight that I am ok with being a ftwm, I always get their annoyed look, as if I am not a good mother. They would tell me that I would regret my decision in future and that I am not placing my kids above my career. They would make me feel so guilty. Yet, many of these sahm, placed their child to cc for the whole day. So what is the difference when the time spent by these sahm with their kids r equal as that of a ftwm? I had even come across sahm whom says ftw parents r irresponsible parents bcoz they send their kids who have nt 100% recovered to school. When working parents told them abt the challenge of taking leaves for days just to make sure their kids have totally no symptoms, or that they simply have not enough leaves, these sahm can bash the working parents as saying they are uncaring and unethical parents as they cared more about their work than the health of their child. Some sahm always mentioned that people should not give birth if they have no help around or could not afford to keep their children at home in the event of sickness. I also came across one who says that the government should is penalising sahm as sahm receive lower cc subsidy than working mums. That they should receive equal, if not higher cc subsidy than working mums since they r nt working and household incomes had been halved. But then again, if sahm sincerely quit their job to look after and spend more time with their kids, then by right they should not have the need to put their children in cc? They should not need any additional subsidy? So to me, it always sounds like sahm are self entitled people who wants the best of both worlds. They just dont want to work using child caring as an excuse, and they want government (essentially are tax payers == working parents) to pay for their childs full day cc fee when they could afford to keep their child at home or just attend half day. Being a sahm also empowers them to criticise working parents for not putting their kids as priority. So can someone help me understand the mentality of sahm? Because I really get frustrated at time with their judging criticism and yet find that they are doing the opposite as what they preach.

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Hi mommies, how many baby clothes do you all usually bought. Is 10 too much. How many cloth to change in a day.

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10 should be fine, buy bigger sizes

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