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Hi I just want to rant. Not too sure if I am having some kind of depression or blues. I had been away from Singapore for a year because I quit my job and followed my husband overseas. Came back when I was five months pregnant because I just couldn't handle pregnancy alone In a foreign country. But my husband is still overseas. Throughout pregnancy I did everything on my own mostly, packing my room and baby stuffs, moving heavy things and going baby fair alone to buy everything. After I gave birth husband comes back to visit once a month only. I totally feel like a single parent. My plan is to find a job back as we still need to service mortgage and my husband salary allowances will be cut once he returns to Singapore. I have been trying to actively look for a job for the whole year. Went for several interviews and for some companies I even went through many rounds and got into the final round. But everytime I am not hired at the end. Just went for a third round of interview and the HR said they are still reviewing a few more candidates. I think I lost my chance again. I am so stressed and down from being rejected again and again. I used to be able to find a job very easily. Now with age and a two year gap in my working life I know it is hard to find a job back. But I never expect to take so long close to a year and still no job. I am feeling so dejected and wonder what is wrong with me. I am willing to take a pay cut but not so much, however I am afraid I have to lower my salary by a lot and that will affect the Amount of cash flow. We still need to Reno our house and buy a car. And most importantly I feel so sad that I have to start all over in my career again. Inside my heart I blame my husband indirectly. I feel so scared sometimes, going to company and company for many rounds of interview. So tired but still have to find time to apply for jobs and husband is not around to help. Sorry for lengthy post. Anyone is like me looking for a job??

There's always something to do. You could look at doing part-time work to get something going. Take a look at job ads online to see what's available.

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Baby sucking toes are very normal .. And to what extend or true that when a baby is sucking his or her feet and toes and mummy going to have a potential pregnancy ? A myth ... but does anyone encounter before..do share your experience .

Yes i heard of this as well from the older generation. Always wondered how true this was? I find it quite hilarious. Haha

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Any review for E-bridge child care?

E bridge Punggol mega school

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Sorry dears, was out of town with extremely bad internet access... But I'm back...I know I missed a lot...but I'll keep up... I would like to know what defines a true friend?? Want to use this topic in our family discussion for my kids...

for me, a true friend is one who will understand me and listen to me without being judgmental, and also give her or his own suggestion and point of view without sounding preachy. a true friend will also point out something that i am doing wrong and that needs to be rectified

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How do you cope with no help?

Any full-time working mom with no help from parents, helpers, family members? Just wanna know how y'all cope.

Myself and husband have to arrange the schedule properly to take care of children after work and bb been placed in infant care

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Do you have a time allotted to study with your kids on a daily basis?

Yes, this help give them structure in their day

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6 year old doesn’t want to go to school

Hi my daughter in next year Jan completes her 6 years, she doesn't take interest in studies she is in class 1. Daily before going school she starts crying she don't want to go, she only wants to play or watch tv, I asked her teacher is there any problem in school with her but she said no,we are so upset she get hyper many time, pls suggest what should we do

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Is there anywhere or anyone who can home bake cakes, and we can diy the decorations ourselves? Or pretty cakes for toodlers at a low rate?

Actually home bake is not exactly cheaper than commercially available ones and might be even more expensive. Polar cakes and puff or Begawan Solo should have cheaper options available. Another one is the Icing Room by BreadTalk. http://www.theicingroom.com/diy.html

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birthday celebration in infant care

Parents who put your LO in infant care, when your Lo celebrate his bday , what do u bring ? A cake ? Cos yesterday one of my boy's classmates celebrated his 1 year old bday and they brought a cake but in the end , none of the children there can eat the cake. Cos of sugar contents I think plus some still below 1 year old .. Anybody has any suggestion?

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i think it will be better to buy it for teachers. all are too young.

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What do you look forward to the most during Christmas season?

Enjoying more time together with family and friends.

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