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Hi, I am difficult situation. 1. I love my job which give me some flexibility as I recently change department and do not need to work late. But I need to take over some tasks which need 6 months to settle down. I have 3 kids, 8 years, 4 years and 16 months old toddler. My youngest one going to childcare next year. I have a helper and my mum to help me until my youngest one in school. 2. My Brother is going to be daddy soon in December and my mum need to help to take care new born. 3. My mum is on difficult situation as my Brother stay in Batam and I am in Singapore. I need a job to shoulder the family. My Husband is debt and he has his own business problems and really no mood to takecare family. I am the main contributor to the family. I have some saving thought and thinking to quit for 2 years then go back to work until my kids all big enough to handle by my helper. If I quit, I will send the helper back and my mum no need to help me. I cannot effort helper If I don't work. I am hoping my mum to help me to go through the difficult situation but I don't think it is good that she doesn't help my Brother. What should I do? I am lost when I heard from my mum that my Brother asking for help. I cannot say no. My helper cannot handle my first Son as he is attention seeking children ( Super hard to handle him). My 2nd one in full day childcare. I just some suggestions on my working arrangement. Should I work part time? My current job not a management role but I have a decent pay with good boss. My helper cannot handle 3 kids after school. I am getting stress to think all these. I feel like world is ending kind.. my mum also keep wanting to go holiday to relax. She worried that she cannot go holiday next year. I am totally lost.

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Went to catch my husband having affair . I saw him going to the mistress house in to her house. I straight away call my mother n my mother in law. When we reach her house. Only my husband come out. Dat mistress dare not come out. He lock the gate n argue argue n etc. I told him why she is hiding. You shld ask her to come out. So we went first floor, he shouting n making hell of a noise. This fucker who neglected me n my lo for 1 month plus. When during the confrontation. He keep saying he want to divorce me . I hv to wait 3 yrs to get divorce I told him i prepare all the separation doc. He told he he will sign. Fucker asking me to pay 50% of the renovation $. Which cost total est $45000. Then i argue, y shld i pay. U the one say u wan to pay. I been looking after the house n cleaning. Y shld i. Then he replied ok then dont need. Later he say house 50 50 share. I said fine. We bought resale just our house is only 1 yr old. My lo custody, he said he doesnt want . He said i can have everything. Just leave and f*** off thats wat he said. I asked him. U leave because of the mistress. He said he is much happier. The replied i told him this is temp happiness you will get. Why i say that. Bcozz she been with married man b4. Even she wen out with his boyfren so call. Which that boy is engaged. She is dating internal police officer. I told him. U will loose your wife, n ur lo. Now your family doesnt respect you. He keep saying never its ok. Just f*** off he keep saying. This is the man that i married, who is selfish, think of sex, pointed knife at my lo. Hitted me 3 times cozz cannot control his hot temper.Liers n so on. My chapter is not end yet cozz i need to speak to a lawyer to prepare separation doc. Mummy do u hv any contact of lawyer. May i know how much separation will cost. Really appreciate .

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