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meds for travel

What are the medicine to prepare for LO when traveling overseas? 1 below 1yo 1 below 2yo 1 going 3yo First time traveling thanks

You should definitely carry paracetamol. But do make sure you consult your doctor for dosage.

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Dress for 7 yrs old

Where can i buy shorts, pants and legging for 7 yr old girl in singapore?

Uniqlo and cotton on kids

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Anyone feeling all alone in their marriage? Why? I would like to hear your story. I'm feeling lonely all the time because my Husband is busy making money and don't have time for me and my LO. Other than his work, he's quite addicted to the siam dius and pub with waitresses. And it's almost every night go drink. Coming home time is 3-6am in the morning! It's been affecting our lifestyle. So I'm all alone with my LO most of the time, all the time. I don't have a job and don't know where should I put my focus on. We quarrelled a lot because of this and creating a lot of tension. I don't see him more than 30mins a day. I also don't know where is this leading to?

My husband was assigned overseas for work for a year. At the start, we would still have frequent video calls to stay connected. But as times goes by, the calls have become like a routine and the content of our chats have become repetitive statements to ask each other to stay healthy and safe. But now, with both our work getting busier, and different timezone, we reduced to regular texting instead. And now, his assignment got extended for another year. I feel like we are getting apart slowly and my boy is also missing his Daddy asking when he will be back. I am not sure how long am I able to keep this up.

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I think i cant stand my husband anymore. Anything he can just keep scolding or preaching non stop even you keep quiet didnt even retaliate or answer. You keep quiet and didnt say a word, did anything he feels you are wrong he will criticise you, scold you “an idiot” “asshole” “dumbass” “stupid”. Eg: switching the wrong lights (his immediate remark is “dumbass”) We came back from shopping, LO fell asleep on the way, when you reached home, what is the first thing you will do? Clean up LO and prepare them to slp? Or u will do household chores and unpack all the other shopping stuffs? LO is already 2yo, yet he cant even make milk. Mess up the whole area and i cant even tell him the right way to do it. He feels that i am insulting him by telling him what to do. He even use a dirty spoon intending to make cereal for LO, when i asked why didnt wash the spoon somemore the spoon is dirty, he gt pissed off and kept scolding me. This is extremely ridiculous to me! I really cannot stand his ego, or chauvinist or attitude. Mummies, teach me how do your deal with such species please!

I wont stand for it and fight back. These type of men expect u to just suck up their scoldings and keep quiet but will be 'enlightened' if their 'victim' fight back.

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I m already facing alot of challenges. My divource only kicks in next year. My lo is only literally 15mths. I left my matrimonial hm n staying with my parents and younger siblings. My hus staying with his mistress sonewhere else. I just dont understand. Every now and there i always hv argument with my mother. She likes to find fault n pick up unneccessary things with me. My 2nd bro. Means i m oldest. He n his wife just staying few blocks aways. Every time my bro n his wife come, keep asking them eat already anot, want me to make tea anot. Wtf. I m yur du, y i dun get such treatment. Today we had family dinner at coffee shop. N everytime i m e want who always never eat properly because i need to look after my lo. My dad tries to help me. But the thing is my lo only wants me. After feeding my lo. I try to carry her n walk ard. She wants to sleep. I try to make her sleep. Then my mother come n tell me off saying that i go n eat. She will look after my dau. I told my mom that i eat already. I m done. Then she not happy because i showing bad attitude towards my bro n sis in law n etc. Y i m acting like this. When i reach my table. My mom say lets go hm. Everyone going hm. Den i say ok. I was clearing my lo bowl because thats hers n i want to bring hm. My mother keep irratating me asking wat am i doing blah blah. So i stared at her jus 2secs . Here come my 2nd bro saying to me: ehh, ehh y u stare at mummy. Y u got prob with me. So i told him off, u hv no right to talk to me like that. Fucking pissed with my damm fucking life. Y i am going through all this shits. Y y y....

I willing to moved out. Move to were. Rental is very expensive.

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How do your cope with husband who is extremely naggy and preachy? He can go on and on and on non stop even the wife doesn’t speak a word. He would even criticise, blame and make sure he said something until the wife opens mouth and say something. I really cannot take it for husband’s unstoppable mouth. Even i tell him nicely to just keep quiet and let me have a moment of peace or quietness, he would reply “no im nt gonna do it, why shld i keep quiet and why should i listen to u? Im going to keep on saying until i stop” Argh!!! There is no way to really make his mouth shut!

If he doesnt move, I will. To another room or place where there is peace and quiet. "Why should I listen to u? I'm going to keep moving until u keep quiet and give me some peace."

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Where can i purchase lucas papaw in singapore? Any physical store that sells?

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What can I do if my husband always criticise and insult my son (3yo) and scold vulgarities when he makes him angry by misbehaving? I scold my boy too but I never say such hurting and disturbing words. I'm very worried it will affect him emotional well-being when he grows up but I can't stop my husband as I have been telling him many MANY times. :(

Your hubby sounds like he has major temper issues. I would give him an ultimatum that if he doesn't stop verbally abusing your child you will leave him. It's not acceptable

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Mummies, advisable to buy dryer? Some says it take long to dry and very crumpled.

Buy gas dryer better. Electric dryer dries much slower and is more costly

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Not enough time

Working mums! How much time do you get to spend with your little ones during the week?

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From 0-3 hrs. But I breastfed at night so we could bond a bit

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