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Baby position 28 weeks

Since my 12 weeks scan, 20 weeks scan baby is mostly in breech position. More like sunny side up, with buttocks at my pelvic area. I’m 28 weeks now and still feel the movements around the same area, not in the upper or rib area. Is this normal? Has baby moved before or always in the same position? Overthinking and worrying about the position. Please share if any similar experience or what I should take note of please. Thank you

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Action partus (swab to check for preterm labour)

Would need advice if anyone has positive result for this test and ended up giving birth in the next 1/2 weeks? I am currently 25 +4 days

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don't get along with my fiancé's younger brother - just need someone to rant to 💀

My fiancé's younger brother is 20 y/o he's very much a spoiled brat, rude and lazy asf. His mother and my fiancé expect me to baby his brother when i told my fiancé his brother is 20 y/o and is well-abled. Why I said he's spoiled brat, rude and lazy? here's one of a few key things (there's more lol): - 1) Doesn't work part time to contribute to the family, excuse: "because i'm still studying". this is just a useless excuse, my fiancé started working when he was 14 y/o whilst still studying (full-time) 2) I hide my snack/instant noodles in the room because he's been taking my stuff without asking for permission or letting me know. BUTTTT, he still went ahead to the room and took my instant noodles 😇🙂, when called out, he's pathetic reason "i have nothing to eat obviously i take la" in rude arrogant manner and unapologetic (obviously never even apologise for it). I told him this instant noodle was not sold in SG yet as it just recently released (obviously 1 packet of instant noodles cost close to $5 lol there's a surge in price because it just got released 😞) and he was also so rude and arrogant saying that i'm staying at HIS MUM'S HOUSE and all my stuff is "their property" 😮‍💨 and nope his mother did not ask her son to apologise (he's her fav child 🫨) 3) He always cook, use the plates, etc and never wash up and my fiancé expect me to wash up his dishes as well 🥱 I told him no he is well-abled to wash up on his own (imagine i haven't even married into his family and he's already expecting me to baby his 20 Y/O BROTHER) — i'm currently 26 wks pregnant, taking care of my son, full-time working and also part-time studying for my diploma 🤐 4) He is soo lazy that he can't even buy his own food right below the block there's a kopitiam 👺 he's mom asked me to collect food for her son (my fiancé younger brother) ☠️ I already told my fiancé firmly that I will not take care of his younger brother 😵‍💫 I told him i'm the only child and I did not even do housework back in my home yet you're expecting me to take care of your younger brother?! I have absolutely no complaints in doing housework as I know I need to contribute to the household but I told my fiancé that I WILL ONLY CONTRIBUTE FOR MY PART (my son, fiancé and me). Nothing else. I just hope I could quickly move-out of this house as I know there will be more issues arising after this happened.

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WA , this .. abit too much. I agree with you that he is able bodied an he should be doing those basic things himself at 20yo. You being pregnant now sometimes cannot stand for long let alone wash dishes at the sink (I know how that feels I’m currently 25 weeks) Also I don’t see a need to do the things like collect food for him (unless you also just nice collecting yours) or washing his dishes for him cause this will just become “your responsibility “ in time to come. For me , such cases I’ll just decide what I want and don’t want to do. If Idw to do it forever or let that become my responsibility, I won’t start helping in the first place. Also it’s rude to take other’s things and not ask for permission. If his family wants to spoil him I suggest letting them take over his half finished work. I don’t see why is this your responsibility tho. But it hasn’t been easy for you, hope your house comes soon and you take good care ya mummy ! 😉
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ART tested positive. Should I see a GP or go hospital? I am in week 27

I am having flu and cough and tested ART and it turn out to be positive. I am not sure what to do. See GP or go hospital at this late hour. I am worried for my baby.

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Been feeling very down and hurt. Just want to let my feelings out..

I’ve been having SPD since end of first trimester. It’s been quite hard for me with the pain and fatigue. My iron levels have significantly dropped as I don’t consume much red meat. Never saw the second trimester boost in energy. Been feeling down lately.. it’s been hard to walk cos of the pressure of the bump, SPD. Husband says I can control my feelings and body. He says I keep using pregnancy card as a reason to how I’m feeling. He doesn’t understand even understand that when I’m hungry, it’s a different kind of hunger. I’ve been very down lately and I just hope he starts understanding how I feel.. Not a lot of people know about the pregnancy so I don’t have anyone to share my feelings with as well. Sorry I’m ranting on here. #1sttimemom #lonelymom #spd

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Glucose test

Anyone took they’re gluocose test Alr? I’m taking this week I have a phobia of vomiting and I heard it’s super common to vomit during the glucose drink rlly nervous any advice? #1sttimemom #adviceappreciated

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Any KKH private gynae (female) for recommendations?

I’m currently 24 weeks pregnant, switching from subsidy to private. Any recommendations on KKH private gynae on pro natural ? Thanks ! 😁

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Work and pregnancy

I am currently working as a nurse and pregnant at the same time. It’s been so hard for me to balance out work life as a pregnant nurse. I’m feeling like it’s leading me to depression and anxiety due to the workload . But there is still nurses who work and their pregnant. But is it bad that only I feel this way ? I don’t know what to do as it’s my probation period.

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Any mummy had bad news from doctors after their ultrasound at 20 weeks? Be it trisomy 18 or 13 or 21

I am just wondering how do u cope with the bad news received. I know the option they give is somewhat a termination of pregnancy. But how do u even think of terminating your baby when u know ur baby has been kicking in your stomach.? Also, how do u prepare yourself for a miscarriage since the success rate is very low even when u plan to keep the pregnancy. Dont mind me. Im really wondering if theres any experienced mummy out there that dont mind sharing.

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I was told that my baby has severe fetal growth restriction at around week 20. I'm also high risk of preeclampsia. My gynae told me that potentially, baby may have genetic issues which causes the slow growth. I was also told to be mentally prepared that baby's heart may stop during pregnancy and I'm likely to deliver prematurely. My husband and I discussed very hard and almost wanted to terminate it, but you're right.. just can't bear to say no when my baby's heart is beating and seeing him move and kick. With all these in mind, my husband and I are mentally prepared but at the same time, we tell ourselves not to think so much because theres nothing we can do at this point but to take care of myself so that my baby has the best possible chance to fight. I came to realise that babies are little warriors and you'll be surprise how strong and resilient they are. I hope for the very best to you regardless of your decision. Take care!
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Placenta is low , what I can do ?

Placenta is low , what I can do ?

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