Why is it that no matter how much you try to love your MIL, nothing is ever good enough? She is always very distant. How can I bond with her? Any suggestions?

That is a difficult ask. Many MIL's become insecure post son's marriage since they feel wife will be the most important person in his son's life thus replacing her. They would overcompensate for this and it becomes like a competition for them. Some tips that might help: - Communicate with her. - Ask her advice - Learn hubby's favorite dishes from her