Feeling hopeless

Whenever I ask my husband to look after my child or interact more with her he told me I was the one who wanted to have children so I need to be responsible to take care.he will do his part that was agreed upon. I feel hopeless how can someone be so heartless and say this kind of thing like the child is only mine.i wonder why then the child has to take the father's surname. Maybe I should change to my surname. Maybe I should consider divorce.

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I feel you! My husband didn't say that, but he doesn't sleep with us. He sleeps in another room, the reason being that the baby will disrupt his sleep, making him unable to work. So it's equally as bad as your situation. When we quarrelled, he scolded me taking care of one baby so tiring ah! Other people still need to work while taking care of the baby and I don't have to work. 😫😢

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hugs 🫂 just treat him transparent. I think will feel better.