What will u do when husband told u "ya u are better off dead, this is everyone's wish, when u are gone, im sure everyone will be very happy" "how i wish you really go and die"

Is he having andropause (men’s menopause)?! Does he usually made such comments? Easier said than done to just pack and leave, if you can I’m guess you would have already done so? That’s why i think it’s so important for mummies to be financial independence so we really can pack and go anytime! Sign, not sure how exactly how I can help u other than mental support :)