What will u do if u found out that your husband went to batam secretly but when confront he says he wanted piece of mind as I as a wife couldn't give him happiness.

That must have been so sad to here. Did he do anything that he shouldn't? Well, he did hide the trip from u, so I would probe more into what else he has been up to. I think u guys need to take about it, if need be engage a counselor to help u guys work it out. "Couldn't give him happiness" is like a pandora box - can lead and be the reason or excuse behind many other things. So u guys have to work on the communication, needs, wants, expectations, compromises, cooperation, service to one another. Hopefully u guys can work things out