What can you do when grandparents, family or friends show favoritism towards one child over another?

It's not just outsiders which show favouritism - parents have been known to favour one child over the other. Take into account the feelings of the disfavoured sibling and do try to talk to the relative in private. Tell them that while they may have a favourite, it is best to treat both children equally. Children are very sensitive and the disfavoured child may feel hurt if he sees his sibling getting all the love and attention from relatives. In this instance, do hug him and ensure that you love both of them equally. http://sg.theasianparent.com/playing-favourites/