delivery & confinement costs

I had an emergency csec which resulted in bill shock for my husband. Then he refused to pay for anything else, I didnt not even have a CL. I had to pay for massage, confinement meal catering myself. I had major melt downs alot of times even months and months after. My hubby was so scared that for second one, he makes sure to pay everything. I was like, come on la, you cannot share the pregnancy with me, you pay la...