It's dangerous when man and woman have a friendship that is not known to their spouse. While conversations are totally innocent now and your friendship is just platonic, there's a chance tt it can still escalate esp when you alr have history tgt. For me and hubby, we agreed right when we're still dating tt we shld not be in contact with any of our exs. Personally, im against contacting ppl we had romantic relationship before because I've seen the trouble it brought upon to my parent's marriage. My dad did what you did, and it escalated and of course it affected our family so much. My parents are still tgt now aft 30 years but we as children lost our respect for him.
So it's either stay away from ur ex or make it known to your husband abt your friendship but definitely limit your contact, don't do it regularly. I'm not sure abt you but I believe in karma, if I do it, my husband could do it too and that's the last thing I wanted because I want to keep the sanctity of our marriage.
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