how often do you have sex during pregnancy?

Are you still having sex frequently during pregnancy? My husband never seems to rest... always asking for it almost every night. He says he's "saving up" before we have to stop after childbirth. Honestly, I'm tired, but I feel bad rejecting him. Sometimes my stomach cramps, but my husband promises to be gentle. I had a little bleeding once, but when I checked with the doctor, everything was fine, and I was advised to rest. After that, my husband asked again. How often is it actually okay to have sex during pregnancy?

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Hi, sorry to hear abt your situation 😭 my sex frequency decreased significantly ever since i got pregnant (currently week 22) and I’m bummed. We used to do 1-2 times a week before pregnancy and now it’s like maximum twice a month. For some reason sex is painful for me when i become pregnant. Fortunately my husband sex drive is not as high (or maybe he jerk off frequently from porn and idk) and I do allow him to buy sex toys such as tenga. He rarely asked me for sex as he doesn’t want me to feel discomfort. Even when I offered he will check in on my condition first. I suggest you to have an honest conversation with him because he cannot only consider his own needs at the expense of your discomfort.

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