frequency of having sex

Mom, sorry if it's vulgar. How many times a week do you have sex? My husband and I maybe only 1-2 times... I've complained before and said it's rare. He says he's tired and needs rest after work. Well, I'm mostly at home. But how many times a week should it actually be? Do you and your partner have a set schedule, or is it more spontaneous? How do you navigate differences in libido or desires?

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Once every 1-2 months (sometimes 3-4 months once) cause our kid sleeps late. There’s no fixed amount of time for how often it should be, some couples do it every 2-3 days, some weekly etc etc.

I don’t think there is a “correct number” it depends on individual. Maybe you can try spicy it up or have a weekly planned date.