When we are mad and frustrated we feel that yelling is the last resort we can do to get the attention of our children, yes I was guilty of this for many times but it was never effective, yeah they get threatened but after that there's no lesson imposed. Instead, we just taught them an unhealthy way to deal with an ordeal, we're just like saying that, it is okay to be unruly when things go bad. I am convinced then that no matter what as parents we should hold our temper, talk to our children with respect and love at all times. I know this is very difficult to do with a lot of pressure that comes into our lives but you will see the difference it makes.