feeling lonely after giving birth

Since giving birth, I don't know why I often feel lonely. It's like... many people don't understand the new sides of me that have emerged. Outwardly, I still laugh, can chat, maybe seem just fine. But deep down... I feel alone in facing all of this. The transition from being a wife to being a mother. It feels really strange to me. My priorities have changed. I become lazy to meet friends and prefer to play with my child. I know it's my choice. But still, it feels lonely... anyone ever felt the same way? how do you cope with it?

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hi mummy! im on the same boat as you and sadly havent found a solution for this loneliness ive been feeling— i gave birth quite young and lost touch with most friends who have TOTALLY different paths/priorities. my husband is the only person i talk to, barely text anyone anymore and really wish i had mum friends like everyone suggested :( if it’s ok w u, i’d love to be your mum friend and talk about everything regarding motherhood, parenting, or if you need to vent our MIL hell stories. i’ll be all ears :))

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