Baby hair cut

Is it rly necessary to cut newborn hair during their 1st or 4th month? I find it so irritating that people have been pestering to cut my baby hair when she just turn a month old.. recently it happen again! And this time round they’re saying my baby needs to get the hair cut to botak during her 4th month! What year is it already and people still believing in this tradition.. while i googled, alot of people have been saying that they regretted cutting their baby hair as they turn out not smooth, growing patch by patch and growing slow!!!! Because of this incident i had an argument with my husband and he’s angry saying im demanding/stubborn. Lol.

Vô danh

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i totally know how u feel!! u r definitely not alone.. my boy 5months now. my very traditional mil oso have been saying to shave botak since he was 2 months old. we keep saying see how althou deep inside we didnt wana shave him botak coz will grow out evenly n nicer.. i oso asked arnd my frens baby one shave n one didnt.. not difference in the end result she said.. n like u said another one said they regretted coz no more soft hair to kiss... near 4th month my hubby went to tell her we not citting of coz ahe was upset but need to stay firm.. tink u shud have a good talk wif hubby regarding wats the real reason to cut hair and stay firm.. some after cut botak the cradle cap become very obvious n unsightly... lastly so one day before my boys 4th month she called at 11pm to say err if u all dun wan to cut hair nevermind just give him the biscuit to rub the mouth so that he will eat everything next time.. she say duno la but is a old ppl say one.. yes irritating so many things to follow.. i jus give in n rub the biscuit as i think not much harm... hang in there!!!

It’s best to discuss with hubby without others interfere with the decision making on your LO. The more people involve it will gets very messy and complicated... Discuss and decided nicely with your hubby. Cut or not it’s really up to you and your hubby. We didn’t cut our LO’s hair since birth and our girl’s hair grow up fine and long.. She was born with lots of hair so Hubby and myself can’t bear and didn’t wanna cut it. LO is 2y10m now.

Hi, Cutting the hair is not necessary until it is making the baby uncomfortable. It is completely dependent on the preference of parents. If you don't feel giving haircut to your LO, you should speak to your husband candidly on this

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