Putting your spouse first or putting your kids first?

This article suggests good reasons and gives justice as to why we should put our spouse first before our children http://familyshare.com/marriage/4-key-reasons-why-it-matters-to-put-your-spouse-before-your-children I totally have no objections and all points taken but personally I always see myself putting my daughter first before my partner primarily because she is a girl, still young and dependant to me. As a mum, I believe am fully responsible to my child like forever and also since my partner is still yet to help me find ways to sustain my child’s needs, I have to give my all to the feeble one.