funeral

any parents divorcee here. i m going through a divource, my husband forced me to put in the deed that my child must attend his patents funeral in the event they no longer around. my child is only 2 yrs and 6months. what the f*** he is thinking. i m the care and control. custody of the child is me. what do i do?? he forcing me to say that must attend and its not a day thingy but until the whole funeral. what i do.

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I don’t see the problem in having your kids attend the full funeral. It’s their grandparents after all! It’s best that he adds whatever he wants into the custody deed. It’s better things are super clear and expectations clearly communicated upfront vs arguing later. I know divorce is tough and emotionally draining and right now you probably hate your souse very badly. I got a divorce 4 years ago. So I completely get it. But it’s not about you mummy. It’s about the kids. Do what’s right for your kids and probably having a. great relationship with their dad is the best thing that you can offer them. Don’t make divorce ugly. The kids suffer. Hang in there mummy!

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