Kinukuhang NINANG Kahit Di Kami Close

Pano po tumanggi pag kinukuha kang Ninang? ? Reason? To be honest kasi, hindi kami close. Ni hindi ko siya naging childhood friend man lang, or yung masasabi mong nakasama mo ng matagal, yung tipong nagkaroon talaga kayo ng bond. Naging team mate ko lang siya for a few weeks and we barely talk. Actually, we don't talk at all, nagmessage lang siya sakin all of a sudden. Can anyone feel me? Yung mga pinag-Ninangan ko kasi, talagang may pinagsamahan kami nung magulang e. At kung ako man din ang kukuha ng Ninong/Ninang, gusto ko kilala ko ng husto at talagang may pinagsamahan na kami coz he/she will stand as a second parent for child. Sorry, I just don't feel comfortable. I don't know how to respond. Hehe.. Any thoughts?