Worry about childbirth pain.

Is it normal for people to worry about childbirth pain even before they conceive. I have some friends who swear by the fact that it’s very painful and they are never going to have children. On the other hand, I have seen many videos online about childbirth and some people commented that while many women swear never to have children, many of them still ended up having children later. Is it a natural instinct in women to want to have children? Or maybe it’s because some people can’t resist the pleasure of sex and ended up having children whether by accident or not? Anyone willing to share how they feel?

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even with epidural you can still feel everything when its time the baby is coming out.I've watched alot of videos(one born every minute) and they pretty much teach you how to control your breathing and i give myself a pat on the back for not letting out a sound even when hubby is just beside me,he fell asleep while i was giving birth only to be awake after baby is almost out but it hurts still.I swore to him that i'm not having another baby but thinking back your whole pregnancy journey,you will miss it.The movement of your baby etc.Now i want another one after just gave birth one month ago hahahaha!and i'm not the type to handle pain very well

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yup he couldnt hear anything,passed out on the couch until the nurse accidently hit his leg then he's awake,by then the baby is almost out already.They asked me if i wanted to wake him up but i told them not to cause he's tired and he hates blood but since he's awake he have to see the whole process.Before taking epidural the contraction hurts like a B,he cried even seeing me in so much pain plus i cursed at the nurses😅for post labour you won't feel much pain at all even when youre walking but you will feel pain when sitting on the toilet bowl. I didnt do any big business cause it traumatic for me honestly,scared i tore off my stitches.Shower part is heaven for me but putting on your undies is the hardest part.I literally have to sit to put on my panties.But overall its a good experience and epidural doesnt hurt at all cause you went through contractions after contractions so needles are nothing already.But if you have to go through induce like me,you can't even poop even if you want t