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Not to defend him, but would like to offer another take on this. Being sexually stimulated by these images may not necessarily mean that he is actively acting out these fantasies. Some people get aroused by such images and only looked at such materials in private. Though I would agree that the risk is still there that this will escalate into actual behaviour (if it has not happened). I suggest having a talk with him. May also be good to have a chat with your children (really sorry to suggest this but it would be good to ensure that your children had been safe from any potential abuse) to check if any inappropriate behaviour had been carried out. There are therapies available and it would be best if your husband is keen to seek professional help. Think through what is best for you and your family and take care! I hope you can get through this difficult period.
First of all, let me say that it is indeed quite shocking and if you were me, I would have immediately left him. However, this is a serious issue and needs to be dealt with maturely, even if it means talking to your husband and finding out the real reason for this heinous act. Please give him the benefit of doubt for the sake of your family, if nothing else. You could also counsel him into speaking the truth and finding out if he's a Paedophile or not. If he agrees to being one, I advice you take him to a psychologist immediately or a counsellor who would be able to handle the situation in a mature fashion. Hope it helps.
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ur a mom who is living with a pedophile, so i'll just stay bring out all the warnings and alerts and act on them...i don't think you want yourself or your kids to be near him. as harsh as it sounds, there can be absolutely NO EXPLANATION that justifies this....if you want to take a legal action you know he can be in jail. that is for you to decide. else simply ask for a separation and keep all the copies as proof.....speak to a lawyer ASAP please
Pedophilia is a serious psychiatric disorder, and one that should be dealt with as soon as possible. With the details that you've provided, I'd be reluctant to give your husband the benefit of the doubt. (Seriously, what more evidence do you need?) You should talk to him about this, but make sure first of all that you have enough evidence and make sure at least one person in the family knows about this.
Psycho Alert!!! Pedophile Alert!! This is definitely not the guy you want to be with though you love him to death! Confront him with a mature discussion for starters but keep a watch on your man. If you can't do it alone, hire a detective. Get your facts right and then take necessary action...if required legally Most important-Mentally prepare yourself to be away from him...
I would definitely be shocked and disgusted, to be honest. But nonetheless, he is my husband and I'd want to help him through it (assuming it's an unhealthy addiction). You should talk to him about it, and see if there's anything that you could do to help him through it. Like any other addiction, it could need treatment.
100's of child porn images -> How young do those children look like? The term child is different to everyone -.- If they are infants and below 12 years old, he has a serious problem. If they are just 18... which some still consider children... then maybe the problem is not that serious.
Assume good faith: - maybe he is a secret agent investigating a paedophile network and will help get them down. - maybe your computer got a virus - maybe (something) In any case, either you go to Interpol now or try to have a mature conversation with him with no further delay
I m damn shock when I read this.. How can a man be like this ? I m so sorry to say that but I m really shocked.. you should talk to him ? And see what's going on ?
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