I'm hurt 😔

Hi mummies..i just need to let it out, i have noone to talk to. Yesterday some girl hugged my husband. It was shocked and hurt..not because of that girl but because of how my husband reacted. He just let it happen, did not move, did not push her away. It was a long hug. His excuse was "I have no time to react". And i was right beside him. It got me thinking what if i wasn't there???? It hurts me very deeply. And made me regret carrying this baby for him. I feel disrespected. I am very heartbroken. I think i am having depression.

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I would think it’s only natural to feel upset over such physical touch issues, as women tend to be more sensitive in their feelings.That being said, I feel that no women would be so ignorant or naive to hug someone’s else husband in front of their wife irregardless of how close a friend they were. Perhaps a short casual hug, but according to you it’s a long hug? So although it’s normal to feel upset about it, but come to think of it, don’t you think she’s just laying a trap for you to walk in? If both you and your husband get into a fight , who gets to play angel? Just try to talk things calmly with your husband, and do not let this get to you or the baby. Ultimately, you are the greatest since you are carrying a baby, hopefully your husband will come to sense that his wife is noble enough to born him a child. Pls think positively and don’t let this affect you or baby, it’s not worth it. Hugs.

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